Daedalus- wrote:I met her at a party (where she 'met' another guy that night). She said that she was single. Also, this all happened in July. What business does he have harassing me more than three months later.
He feels hurt and he doesn't want to blame himself. It is childish, really, but if you had the mind of a 12 year old, who would you blame?
Daedalus- wrote:I have had many cheating girlfriends the current one included (which is why I wasn't with her while I was in CA - no worries now though

) and I have learned that when your woman cheats there are only two people to blame, you and her.
I agree with you there. It always comes down to one or the other. The 'exterior' influences are often just a cog in the mix.
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Do you ever listen to Lamont & Tonelli on 107.7 The Bone? They did this really stupid thing last week where they hooked up a married woman who was looking for some 'satisfaction' with a married man that 'with four kids can say I have been intimate with my wife about four times'. Well she was looking for a married man so there couldn't be any romantic entanglements and so this dude, married with four kids, fit the bill for her. The radio show hooked them up, they met this past weekend and did their deed.
This was aired this morning on the radio. Apparently the guys wife listens to the radio. So does her mom. Well, let me just she was more than a little ticked off about the whole thing. Don't know why I thought of it, but I did, so I shared. Its just the kinda guy I am I guess.
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